Adding to my blog again

I am going to redo my blog page with some Valentine's Day stuff to get a little romance in the air. Since my beloved husband doesn't believe in the whole Valentine's Day "gimick" as he puts it, I usually buy myself a little something if my income tax money has arrived by then. His birthday is the day after and he really doesn't believe in celebrating those either. The 2 parties I had for him was enjoyed when he graced our friends with his appearance at the bowling alley of course. How I thought this was a wise idea when I was planning or trying to plan my wedding, I must have been on something to think it would be a cool thing. Because now I have come to realize that having your birthday, anniversary, and Mother's Day so close together isn't that great when you married a non celebrating kind of man. 2 of which I couldn't help but my anniversary was chosen after a nightmare of trying to get my so called mother's opinions and her butting into the whole thing. Dates changed several times, my attendants changed, my whole idea of where and when I wanted married was changed, what I wanted to wear for a dress changed......there I was in the middle of a very overbearing mother and a stubborn hard headed man who didn't see the need in anything I wanted, he wanted all his way or throw a fit way.....Yea bout had a nervous breakdown over that ordeal. So anyways, Steve does sometimes surprise me and asks if I want to go out to dinner or last year he bought me a lia sophia necklace I wanted. And I am sure he will assist Jordan in planning a 40th birthday party for me with guidance from me of what I want and where. So hope everyone is looking forward to the weekend, I myself have to make it a productive one by starting to list stuff on ebay to sell for some extra cash for my party fund to start!! TGIF everyone!